Perspective...

Well this certainly has been an eventful month. First we celebrated Father's Day - a great but very busy weekend. Then we made plans to celebrate our 14th anniversary (Tuesday, June 26th) with a trip to Charleston for the week and a nice dinner out while my sister spent some quality time with Ella. As it often seems to be with great plans, we ran into a pretty big snag on Saturday the 23rd. Some friends came by to pick up our 4-wheeler (we had sold it to them). Keith pulled it out of the garage to help them load it and decided to run it down the street right in front of the house to make sure all systems were a go. Don't know how it happened because I was inside giving Ella a bath and our friends didn't see the whole thing either, but somehow Keith lost control of the ATV and had a face to face confrontation with the asphalt. He managed to get up, come inside and call me downstairs. I found him covered in blood, obviously needing stitches in his nose. Then, the questions started. What happened? What did I do? Why didn't Mandy come down when I called her? Sure signs of a head injury...(his second). Needless to say, I grabbed Ella out of the tub, threw some clothes on her and rushed him to the emergency room. BTW, outside of a slightly bent handle bar, the 4-wheeler made it through the accident just fine - which of course means that Keith took the brunt of the fall. His injuries included a broken nose with stitches in it, lots of bad looking road rash, a very sore right arm and shoulder with a possible fracture in his hand, bruised kidneys, and a head injury reflected by a large bruise on his forehead. So we spent the night in the hospital and settled in at home on Sunday for a week of recovery rather than a week of celebration in Charleston. I must say, it could have been so much worse than it was and after 14 years I'm pretty attached to my man, so I was just glad to have him here with me on our anniversary. Now we are in the process of recovery and praying that the lingering affects of the head injury and his other injuries will soon pass and he will be good as new! Keith's birthday is coming up on July 25th and hopefully we will be able to find some beach time to celebrate then.

It's amazing how a freak accident like this puts everything in perspective. I realize how blessed I am to have my husband by my side even for a moment. Even the things that we considered "big things" going on look so much smaller now from my viewpoint. You know, the Lord doesn't promise us tomorrow. He doesn't promise us that we will have our loved ones tomorrow. The only thing we can bank on is that we have this moment - right now - and what we do with it really does matter. Keith and I found a quote the other day that said, "What I do today is important because I am exchanging a day of my life for it." If I take a look at my life and put everything in perspective, are my priorites in line? Am I spending my time on the really valuable things in the this life? Am I loving and encouraging my spouse? Am I training up my child in the Lord? Am I operating as a light in the darkness of everyday life for others? Am I going about the busyness of the day...or am I going about God's business for me today?

What I know is I don't want to miss the truly important things of life...not a moment with my husband, my daughter, or my family...not a moment of God's plan for my life. I want to live the abundant life I have been given right here and right now. I want to experience the true joys of life rather than focusing on the minors!